Motivation Tips and Tools Part 4

December 30, 2011 by

Motivation Tips and Tools

Part 4

A Series Created For You On Motivation

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Listen to inspiring and motivating people

Listen to Inspiring and Motivating People

5. Your Life.

I don't want to sound negative but there is a point I want to make that is vital to your life because it is your life. I do this because I care and I want you to understand as many concepts as you can.

Do not listen to others that tell you what you can and can't desire, dream, and accomplish. Don't listen to the ones that aren't achieving it in their lives. Listen to the ones that ARE. If they are in your life, then spend more time with them. If you don't have people in your life that can mentor you get some digital products that will encourage, guide and help you. Every mentor I know spends money on their personal development with digital products, coaching, and seminars. Where else will you find the concepts? This is an education and the cost of education is small compared to the changes you will see when you take action on the training.

Don't worry about what others will think. They will think whatever they think no matter what you do. Don't let it affect your goals and dreams. Your life purpose here is to find your purpose and then live it. That is a joyful life. It's not your purpose to live for the approval of others or to create a life that is someone else's picture of what they think your life should be. The people in your life have a major effect on your life, don't they? Are they supporting what you are doing in your life or not? Are your relationships draining or life giving? Through my life I have been in situations where I thought the right thing was doing what someone else wanted me to be doing with my life. It didn't last long because I began to feel uncomfortable. That little voice inside me was talking louder and louder until I listened to it - ultimately I finally listened to myself -- my source.

I always ask myself -- what would be the worst thing that could happen if I gave up my dreams and goals? This is not my main motivator but it sure helps to keep me moving forward at times. The answer...I sure wouldn't feel good about it.

Know that things in life and also the thoughts you have will come up that can have the power to knock you off your path. You must have a clear purpose -- your reason and a clear vision of what you want your life to look like. This will help you get through those times when you begin to waiver. View things that don't work out as a learning opportunity that teaches you how not to do something. These are blessings because they actually are bringing you closer to your goal.

Look at things in a new and different way. Try viewing the world like a child. Be curious. Don't hold so tight. Look at the world with someone else's eyes. Use all your senses to perceive the world around you.

Ladies, Gents, talk to me. Leave me a comment. Go to my Facebook page. ("like" it too.) Let me know what is working for you. By my writing you are learning who I am. I'd like to get to know who you are.

Happy New Year

Happy New Year!

Happy New Year!

Happy New You!

With Love,





  1. Deborah Kovecses

    Thank you so much for making me think about what I want for me. Motivation Tips and Tools Part 4 made me realize how hard I work at taking care of everyone else. With your Motivation Tips and Tools I hope to work toward what I want my life to be. What comes to mind is that I need to take care of number one! Thanks again for sharing your wisdom. Deborah L

    • JudithM

      We all need the reminder to take care of ourselves first because if we don't then there is less of ourselves to give to others!

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